Posted on December 4, 2014 by lake-n-stars
Dear Kinkster, I’m very interested in BDSM, but I’m not into pain. Are there other aspects of BDSM that I can explore? Pleasure not Pain Dear PnP, There are many aspects to BDSM (Bondage & Discpline/Submission & Dominance/Sadiomasochism), but eliciting or receiving pain is not the end game of the role playing, at least not for some. […]
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Posted on December 3, 2014 by shadow-girl
Aftercare is the one thing that can make or break an experience for me. An otherwise beautifully crafted and executed scene, by an amazing and skilled Dom(me) can be tainted in my memory when the proper care has not been administered afterwards. I have had it happen. Many times. Improper aftercare can leave us feeling […]
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Posted on November 29, 2014 by mattscott
As a sad reminder of how far humanity still has to go in recognizing LGBT equality and rights, this story out of Idaho is sure to leave you feeling disgusted. Jennifer Gable, a 32-year-old Wells Fargo employee working in Boise, died suddenly on October 9, from a brain aneurysm suffered while at work. What makes […]
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Posted on November 27, 2014 by shadow-girl
CBC radio host Jian Ghomeshi, recently accused in the media of numerous sexual assault acts, has been formally charged with 4 counts of sexual assault and faces a potential fifth charge of “overcoming resistance by choking.” His lawyer informs the media that he will be pleading not guilty and that they will not be making […]
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Posted on November 26, 2014 by lake-n-stars
Dear Kinkster, Lately I’ve been thinking about consent and consent violations and if I inadvertently did something I wasn’t supposed to. Let me explain. I played with a new partner at a public venue not too long ago, and thought we had negotiated every detail before I put her up on the cross. Everything was […]
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