Posted on February 18, 2015 by mattscott
Q: I found your website through the OntarioKink Tumblr blog, and I’m looking for advice. I’ve tried going on a few dates (mostly using OkCupid and PlentyOfFish), and mentioning that I have submissive tendencies. That tends to either end the date, or make men think that I’m just looking for sex. I guess what I’m […]
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Posted on February 14, 2015 by mattscott
By now, most people are familiar with the 50 Shades of Grey book series that has sold more than 100 million copies, and spawned a movie adaptation. In this article you’ll learn how to turn your fantasies into reality. I’ll cover both some things to keep in mind, as well as a few techniques to […]
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Posted on February 13, 2015 by speciallibrarian
I’m a kinkster, the ‘s’ in a D/s relationship, and an avid reader. I’ve read the 50 Shades of Grey trilogy. Begrudgingly, because even though I heard it was poorly written (which it is), I wanted to see what all the fuss was about. There are a few things about how BDSM and Christian and […]
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Posted on February 13, 2015 by mattscott
Orgasm denial is a fetish that involves restriction of a partner’s orgasm. Generally incorporated into power exchange scenarios, this technique can take the form of outright denial of any sexual pleasure or stimulation for a period of time, or could be a mix of heightened stimulation, followed by a cessation of the stimulation once the […]
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Posted on February 13, 2015 by mattscott
The debate over the 50 Shades movie rages on, with some people vilifying the books and movie for popularizing ‘violence against women’, while the BDSM community largely wants to take a step away from the 50 Shades phenomenon, instead wanting to underscore that it is a horrible depiction of a real kinky relationship. The key […]
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