Kinky Q & A (December 10, 2014)

Dear Kinkster,

I went to my first play party the other night and had a lot of fun and met some really great people.  My question is about the ‘costumes’ that we have to wear ~ what’s the deal??

Thanks,

Empty Closet

Dear EC,

I’m glad to hear that you had a good time at your first play party, hopefully be back for more!

Did you happen to notice how happy everyone was?  I bet there was a bunch of laughter, handshakes, hugs and conversations.  And the play area was probably jammed with scenes and sounds.  Good times all around right?  Those are the real focus of the parties, to bring people together for a few hours to have some kinky fun.   Their outfits simply add to that fun, put people in the mood for their scenes and/or entice others to play with them.  Some of us are flirts and exhibitions and this fuels our playfulness.  No one has to dress up though, it’s not mandatory nor a requirement, it’s just a suggestion to get folks in the mood.

Bottom line EC is wear whatever you’re comfortable in, keep in mind it’s a fetish party and that that fetish wear is whatever you feel is right for you.

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