Tips for Submissives

mattblogsigred-01Whether you’re new to kink, or have been involved in kinky play and relationships before there are some things you should take into consideration. Below are some tips for submissives that you can use to safely navigate in this erotic world! Consent is key. Many kink relationships and scene revolve around what we call ‘power […]
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The Proper Care and Feeding of Newbies

With the popularity of 50 Shades of Grey, greater exposure through sex-oriented events and escalated word of mouth, the fetish community has been inundated with scores of brand spanking new aspiring kinksters.  In one train of thought, we can look upon this as a great thing – more acceptance and less marginalizing of our lifestyle.  If […]
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Tips for Newbies

mattblogsigred-01Welcome! If you’re new to kink, this site has everything you need to begin exploring this new world of seemingly infinite possibilities! Whether you read a book with fetish or BDSM overtones (like 50 Shades of Grey for instance), stumbled across a porn website showing dominance and submission, or had a discussion with a partner […]
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Tips for Dominants

mattblogsigred-01Whether you’re new to kink, or have been involved in kinky play and relationships before there are some things you should take into consideration. Below are some tips for dominants that you can use to safely navigate in this erotic world! Consent is key. Without consent, you are not engaging in BDSM. At that point, it’s […]
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Let's Talk About Consent, Baby!

I don’t know about you, but when I ask someone to kiss me, fuck me, play with me, tease me, beat me, fuck me, torture me or…hmmm, did I say ‘fuck me’ yet? When I pose any of these questions, I don’t want to hear: “Ummm, okay.” OR “I guess.” OR receive a timid nod. […]
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