A Question About Fetish Photography

Q: I recently received a message from a few photographers, asking me to do some fetish modeling shoots. Do you have any tips that will help me going forward with fetish photography? A: Please, please, please, please do your research. There are some AMAZING fetish photographers out there. Some of them come up with incredible […]
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First the Meat List, Now the FetLife Creep List

Roughly a month ago, panic about something called the FetLife Meat List made the rounds among FetLife.com users. The list contained the usernames, ages, and cities of women under the age of 30, and implied that they are sexualized meat to be consumed. The data had been collected by Mircea Popescu using a quite bit […]
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Independent Inquiry finds Ghomeshi case Handled Poorly By Management

An investigation into the way CBC handled the Jian Ghomeshi case has been done by a third party, Janice Rubin, a Toronto employment lawyer with expertise in the field of work place harassment.  Her report concludes that CBC management did not properly handle the situation.  You can find Rubin’s full report HERE.  Two executives at CBC have […]
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My thoughts on the "Meat List"

There have been approximately a thousand writings about the “Meat List” and what it means for the security of Fetlife. The answer is…. nothing. It means nothing. There is no security breach, no sensitive information was attained. This “Meat List” is a list of links to the profiles of women under the age of thirty […]
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Tips for Protecting Privacy on FetLife

If you’re not ‘out’ about being kinky to your friends, you might want to consider taking a few steps to protect your privacy on FetLife. Here are a few points to ponder, and ways to keep things more private. Let me preface this by saying that I encourage people to be ‘out’ if they can […]
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